I think one of the most difficult decisions a parent has to make is a decision concerning medical treatment or surgery for a child when he or she is unable to tell you exactly what hurts or how they are feeling. The decision is easier to make if the situation is dire or that person is in immediate danger or if it involves life or death. The situation with Wyatt is very complex and involves many issues. I am trying to process each issue to make the decision that will provide the best care for him not only today but for the rest of his life. Wyatt is having multiple issues right now from feeding, diaphragm, lung and others. All or some may need to be surgically repaired. Wyatt has proven after each operation, even minor, that he struggles to recover and the post op has proven to be a critical time for him. His diaphragm repair is a major surgery that will require his chest to be completely opened and his recovery will be painful and take days afterwards. I have requested a surgeon who has operated on him in the past. Due to the complexity of the issues and the fact multiple concerns may need to be addressed during surgery, at least two pediatric surgeons will be needed. As all of this is being evaluated with multiple specialists, this process it is taking a few days to complete. Wyatt may not be fit to go into surgery several times and the load on his body and recovery also need to be considered. He is in pain from time to time and I feel that the doctors are treating his pain as well as possible. Unfortunately, pain is present.
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Your precious Wyatt (LOVE the Super WY nickname) is in my prayers. Always. He is such a trooper and so beautiful. Keep on keeping on Eric...hugs to you and your wife.
ReplyDeleteYour family is in the prayers of our family.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this great update, Eric. I don't know where you find the strength or the time to do it, but you continue to do such a great job of attending to US... to our hearts that worry about your beautiful children, and to our minds that wonder what the heck is going on. Thank you for keeping us informed and educated. We pray for you all every day. May God guide you and Wyatt and his doctors safely through this, and get him home soon. Baseball season is right around the corner, you know... and Wyatt seems like he's going to be a baseball guy to me. ;) Love, Angela
ReplyDeleteYou will find the strength to get through this as you did before. Its not an easy road by any means hang on to each other. Gabriel and I are praying for you.
ReplyDeleteSo sad to have a sick child. I will keep him and your family in my prayers.
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